How Women on Chyrpe are Redefining What a ‘Match’ Looks Like

I have been successfully using dating apps for half a decade, and in this text, I will explain why Chyrpe revolutionized the male dating experience.

I’ve always had a somewhat easy time on dating apps, being tall, fit, decent-looking, and well-educated. This allowed me to go on numerous dates using all kinds of apps.

However, after a few years and a couple of short-lived relationships, I realized that something fundamental was missing. All dating apps—whether mainstream or more specific—tend to deliver an experience where I, as the man, ultimately take the lead. Don’t misunderstand me, this isn’t bad in all scenarios; allow me to explain what I mean.

Dating is about connection, where we men hope to feel as desired as we make our partners feel. We want mutuality. Yet no matter where I went—even Bumble, which supposedly puts women in control of the first move—I encountered a dating world that placed most responsibility on the man.

I love showing my partner affection through gifts, but I never wanted to lead every aspect of the dynamic. I realized that what made me feel at home and loved in a relationship was a partner who was also willing to make decisions and influence the outcome.

Not only women find competence and decisiveness attractive; I quickly noticed that I do too.

Here is where Chyrpe comes in. Chyrpe, which focuses on female-led relationships, offered me a space to meet people who, for the first time, pursued me with as much decisiveness as I had always been expected to show. I was the object of desire, and I was allowed to be treasured. While mixed experiences are inevitable when connecting with people of diverse perspectives, I can confidently say, after using Chyrpe for a little over a month, that it’s the place to be for any man who wants to support a strong woman.

If you want to be a knight to your queen or an angel to your goddess, Chyrpe is the place for you. Thank you, women on Chyrpe, for being the courageous inspirations you are, and thanks to the Chyrpe team for creating this space.

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What better way to herald FLR than by showcasing the perspectives of the leading women in our community?

We’re excited to give you a glimpse into the journey of a Chyrpe user who has redefined love, dating, and partnership on her own terms—and this is just the beginning.

Ratings, power boards, and roles?! It felt like someone had called my name in a hall full of… well, dating apps. Of course, I’d seen others, but when it came to finding the kind of connections I was actually looking for? Chyrpe it is. Sure, plenty of other apps cater to a hodgepodge of (mostly traditional) dynamics, but have you ever felt like something was made for you?

We’ve spent too many days reading between the lines of profiles on other apps, trying to figure out if someone was looking for someone like us—to tell them what to do, of course. Emphasis on between because, let’s be real, the conversation about what I actually wanted someone to do didn’t usually start on the first date. Here, it does. From the first match, we can set clear expectations and shape the type of connection(s) we want. We’ve quite literally got the reins, boys—so buckle up.

I won’t claim to speak for all women, but I can confidently say this: dating profiles could, plainly put… tighten up. Have I been leaving reviews on your (yes, your) profile? Absolutely. You can thank us later. You want to meet someone, right? Then step away from that dark, dirty bathroom mirror, refresh your bio, and tell us why something (We, IYKYK) is important to you.

I’ve been on my fair share of platforms, and for the longest time, I couldn’t put my finger on what was missing. Every connection felt more like a game show. Emphasis on “games”—but that’s a discussion for another time. I’m talking, "Oof, why did he write that?" moments, "Too soon(s),” and "Care to elaborate?" reactions. It got to the point where I could predict the miss before the swing. I, like many others here, love knowing what to expect—so keep in mind that the rules you set before you even type that first message will set you up for success.

And finally, who are you? It’s important that our matches can articulate—not just throw around a few buzzwords. Tell us your intentions on this platform, and maybe—just maybe—we’ll swipe right.

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I have been successfully using dating apps for half a decade, and in this text, I will explain why Chyrpe revolutionized the male dating experience.

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What better way to herald FLR than by showcasing the perspectives of the leading women in our community?

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