If you want to connect with a dominant woman, start with respect. This does not mean crawling or pleading, it means talking to her like a normal human being, with decency and care. You hopefully don’t talk about intimacy immediately with a person you newly meet, the same should be true here. She will ask you to talk about your preferences, if she wishes for it.
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Dominance is a two-way connection based on mutual trust, consent and most often, a clear and real connection that extends beyond the dynamic type

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She is not a fantasy

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If you want any chance at success, you need to understand this; a woman with a dominant preference is not just your kink, your idea or your daydream come to life. She is a person with her own needs, boundaries, preferences and own inner world that has nothing to do with your preferences. Just like you may have family, career or hobbies that you are passionate about, she is more than an intimate preference.

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If you are only interested in her because of your preference, she will see through it - many will not appreciate this. Hence, engaging in conversation about kink immediately would be very ill advised.

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Dominance is not a costume party for the pleasure of someone else. It is a part of how someone moves through the world and it deserves to be treated with the respect without being fetishised.‍
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What actually works
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Start with who you are. Be a person first. Be kind, grounded and curious. Ask questions, not about kink, but about her. Be patient – real connections take time, and trust is something that is earned. Not talking about spicy things before you meet a person at least once, should not be a shock. You met on Chyrpe, you don’t need her to confirm what she likes – Chyrpe is the application for female-led and femdom relationships.
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Always keep in mind, respect and care are the right path to form any connection.