He Wants Me to Try to Be on Top but I'm Scared

June 30, 2024

Whether you're new to female-led relationships or already have experience as a dominant woman, questions are normal. In our "Chyrpe Letters" series, we answer questions from our users and our past selves with the kind advice you’d expect from a good friend.

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Hey,

It’s totally okay to feel nervous about trying new things, like being on top—believe me, I’ve been there too! With all the talk about being a "pillow princess," taking the lead can feel a bit out of our comfort zone.

But here’s the thing: when I gave it a shot, it changed everything. Controlling the pace and intensity not only spiced up our intimacy, it made the whole experience more enjoyable for both of us. Plus, it added a new layer of communication and trust to our relationship.

If you're unsure, remember it's fine to start slow and explore what works best for you. Stepping into this new role can be surprisingly empowering and might just bring you a deeper connection and satisfaction than you expected.

Keep glowing!

Much love!

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