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関係をリードしたいという関心は、それを言い表す言葉より先に生まれることがあります。このスペースでは、欲求とは何か、ドミナント（主導する側）やサブミッシブ（従う側）であるとはどういうことかという問いを通して、フェムドム（女性が主導するSM・主従関係）と女性主導の関係（FLR）を紹介します。自分の関心や関係を表すために使われる言葉についてもっと知りたい方は、用語辞典をご覧ください。

学校の授業のように構える必要はありません。自分自身や自分の欲求について、あるいは似た関心を持つ人たちについて、理解を深めるきっかけになれば十分です。暗記するものではなく、テストされることもありません。

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